I need some advice. I know that all friends lose touch and that is nothing new, but I also know that you can reconnect those friendships as well. So when do you just give up on a friend and when do you keep trying to be friends? I have a friend like this that I haven’t seen or talked to since January. We used to be closer and we used to live together. When do you just give up on them? I know that sounds harsh but I am tired of putting myself out there for her and getting nothing back. So, I stopped doing that and we haven’t talked since I basically had to beg her to have a birthday dinner with me this year. This has been on my mind recently and I just don’t know what to do about it.
I did run into her at Target completely randomly and it seemed that she had so many better things to do than to talk to me. It’s almost like I wasn’t really there or she wished I hadn’t come over to see her. She was rude, which to me, is kind of like her mother…so I understand, but at the same time, it completely through me off guard. Is this the person she is now? If it is, I don’t think I want anything to do with it. I don’t know how you can act like that to someone you have known your entire life. She had this “I’m better than you” and “Oh look how great I am” attitude. She always had moments of these point of views but never as bad as it was at Target. It just left me dumbstruck.
What would you do?